‘Cherish every moment’ – family

Friday May 29, 2020 Written by Published in Local
Peri Vaevae Pare was in the second group of Cook Islanders returning home. KATRINA TANIRAU 20052805 Peri Vaevae Pare was in the second group of Cook Islanders returning home. KATRINA TANIRAU 20052805

A proud Cook Islander and a man of kindness, who lived to inspire others and make a difference.

That’s how people who knew and loved Peri Vaevae Pare describe him.

Tributes are flowing for the former Cook Islands Cabinet Minister and MP for Matavera, after he passed away on Wednesday at the Edgewater Resort quarantine facility.

He was found unresponsive in his room after reports that he hadn’t been seen since the morning.

Papa Peri, as he was affectionately known, was part of the second group of 102 returning Cook Islanders and was due to leave the centre today.

He was a member of the Democratic Party and held the Health and Police portfolios.

His nephew Jarome Pare said Papa Peri lived by a saying, which will stick with him forever: “Life is a challenge, meet it! Life is a dream, realise it. Life is a game play it! Life is love, enjoy it.”

Pare said his uncle’s death was hard to come to terms with because they couldn’t be home in Rarotonga with him.

“You were a man living with great purpose and always on the go. I will forever cherish every moment spent with you especially those long talks when you would come round home on your work breaks,” he said.

“I would ask you to tell me stories about your time as a politician. You really did make a difference to our country.”

He also played a huge role in laying the foundations for Cook Islands music, said Pare, who is a well-known musician himself.

When his dad, Papa Peri’s younger brother Noo Pare would bring artists and musicians to Rarotonga to promote their cassettes, it was Papa Peri’s home in Matavera that would house everyone.

He and his wife would prepare their kaikai every day and all of those “musos” still talk about the kindness and generosity shown by him.

Papa Peri’s last message to his nephew when they went to lunch was to make a difference for Cook Islands people through his music.

He promised to try his best.

“Rest in love Uncle you have helped and inspired so many in your time here on Earth. I’m so honoured that you were the one that named me Jarome,” he said.

“My heart goes out to all my cousins in Rarotonga especially my kuz Alphonzo who’s at home right not. I’m sorry I can’t be there with you but know I’m thinking about you.”

Leader of the Opposition Tina Browne said on behalf of the Democratic Party and their entire family, they extended their deepest condolences to the kopu tangata of Papa Peri Vaevae Pare.

“He will be remembered by the many people he served, helped and who loved him.We mourn his passing as do many others whose lives he touched, Peri was a larger than life character and brought much pu ma’ana to the world,” she said.

“We extend our aroa nui to the family of Peri Vaevae Pare.

“Te akaroa. Te tangi i te kopu tangata.”  

6 comments

  • Comment Link Manuarii V Pare Friday, 05 June 2020 17:03 posted by Manuarii V Pare

    I'm really sorry that you were alone when you passed Dad.. am stunned and deeply hurt that I didn't spend enough time with you whilst your stay here in nz before you went into quarantine..love you so much and will see you again..you sure did made a name for yourself DAD....

  • Comment Link Cameron Scott Friday, 29 May 2020 19:04 posted by Cameron Scott

    Fondly remembered. ❤️

  • Comment Link Maine Samuela Friday, 29 May 2020 16:53 posted by Maine Samuela

    Te akaroa Rest In Peace uncle Peri...condolences to both family

  • Comment Link Noo Pare Friday, 29 May 2020 12:40 posted by Noo Pare

    I am deeply lost for words.....I'm going to miss you my brother.....U ARE DA MAN!!!!!!!

  • Comment Link Akatuia william Friday, 29 May 2020 11:11 posted by Akatuia william

    Praise the Lord everyone ..Tangi ke rava ..Te akaroa te mamae nei te ngakau ite akarongo anga I toou nuti,e te tungane Peri Vaevae Pare ee kua takake atu koe.na te ara tiroa ote akangaroi anga . I missed you my cuzzin, knowing that you pass away brings tears to my eyes.
    I will never forget the good times that we spend during the William Master's House opening in Rarotonga.
    Aere ra e tau taeake ei parataito tatou aravei ai.
    Te aere atu nei te reo akapumaana ia tatou te kopu tangata katoatoa.
    Akamaroiroi tatou nate Atua tatou e tiaki Kia.
    Rest in peace my brother, missing you.
    God bless us all

  • Comment Link Tupu Araiti Friday, 29 May 2020 10:50 posted by Tupu Araiti

    You're a wonderful person that I got to know over the years ... a wonderful and humble person with the love and care of the Matavera people very closely locked to your heart. Me pou nga ra nga tuatau, ka aravei akaou tauva e Papa Peri. Tupu Araiti

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